It is exhausting. My kids are 9 and 11. It’s different, but still all consuming. Still, I think it is very hard for anyone to predict what some one else’s ex

It is exhausting. My kids are 9 and 11. It’s different, but still all consuming. Still, I think it is very hard for anyone to predict what some one else’s experience will be having kids. It depends on the kids temperament, yours, your spouses, how your relationship works, What the expectations are in your community, and so much more. The older I get, especially now that I see my parents really aging, the more I see life is just complicated. Kids or not, you have to find happiness where you can, and accept that sometimes things are imperfect.