The big change for me was year 6.. so hang in there friend. When they are 6 they become much more self contained, they don't need constant entertaining. They w

The big change for me was year 6.. so hang in there friend. When they are 6 they become much more self contained, they don't need constant entertaining. They will leave you alone, without being asked, for hours at a time to do what they want to. You have 2 so you will have a bit of a longer spell, but after 6 you enter into the high summer of their childhood. They are small enough not to have any real problems (apart from, god forbid, medical ones) but they are big enough to give you time and space to breath. I hear your pain. But it will be worth it, and it will improve.