Maybe another perspective on your circumstance might help? You talk about your regret as though, had you made the decision, a child would have been a given. Tha

Maybe another perspective on your circumstance might help? You talk about your regret as though, had you made the decision, a child would have been a given. That may not have been the case. For many people this is what they have come to terms with. I don't know if this is a possibility for you and your partner, but if you want children in your life, maybe they are there already and would appreciate you being a bigger part of their lives? Uncles, aunts, nieces, and nephews are amazing. Often times very close.