I said goodbye to my previous life when on one evening in a restaurant in Italy I discovered that I just don't enjoy going places that much any more. As for cr

I said goodbye to my previous life when on one evening in a restaurant in Italy I discovered that I just don't enjoy going places that much any more. As for creative work after hours: I realized I was overestimating its importance to me because previously I would frequently elect to just watch YouTube or argue on the internet - I just didn't see it back then. After a year or so since becoming a parent I returned to the previous rate of producing side-projects so it's all good now. I just don't have time to waste on those other activities, which is also a net gain.