> All I got was a free cappuccino with one of them. Waste of time. This sounds like part of the problem. Lucky people tend to think they are lucky. Because whe

> All I got was a free cappuccino with one of them. Waste of time. This sounds like part of the problem. Lucky people tend to think they are lucky. Because when an opportunity arrives, they assume it's lucky and look for the reason why. If you assume you have bad luck, you could, for example, get invited to an exclusive 1:1 meeting with a high powered VC investor, who has a ton of wisdom, many connections, and access to resources, and somehow think it was a waste of time.