@OP : Sorry to hear that you are suffering. To give you a bit of perspective - I think couples who have kids will regret some bit of it. There are things that

@OP : Sorry to hear that you are suffering. To give you a bit of perspective - I think couples who have kids will regret some bit of it. There are things that are inconvenient , there will be missed opportunities either way. So don't think that the feelings you have of regret will go away if you have kids. It's a conscious choice: You can use IVF / adoption other means to have kid(s) but be aware that once you take the decision of having kid(s), you can't really go back even if you feel helpless,anxious etc:) Signed, Dad of two kids