lol maybe you're seeing it with rose colored glasses... as someone seeing my friends all go thru this right now, for the majority it sure looks like their life

lol maybe you're seeing it with rose colored glasses... as someone seeing my friends all go thru this right now, for the majority it sure looks like their life is way more stressful and not in a good way. this trickles down into everything...work, marriage, etc. justifying it by saying it's not gonna last forever seems more like a copout, no offense. i maintain that you shouldn't have kids unless you really, really want them. your life goals will take a backseat and your marriage better be on solid ground.