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This is why I recommend friends & family use Signal, and they've actually adopted it due to the really easy on-boarding. It's probably the best iMessage alterna

by tapoxi 4y ago

This is why I recommend friends & family use Signal, and they've actually adopted it due to the really easy on-boarding. It's probably the best iMessage alternative out there.

zaik 4y ago
That's why I run an XMPP server for family and friends. It's the IETF standard, no vendor lock-in and has Signal-style encryption nowadays.
- ticviking 4y ago
  How hard was it to onboard less tech savy friends and family?
  - gchamonlive 4y ago
    I am not sure op actually runs that server or was just being sarcastic
  - zaik 4y ago
    Not that hard. Everyone already knows how email works: you have to get an address first, download a client and login. I then showed them where to register (https://providers.xmpp.net https://providers.xmpp.net) and how to download Conversations. It got easier once a good chunk of my friend group was already available there.
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- earth2mars 4y ago
  I tried this. and it didn't work! network effect is a thing and its hard to move away as people have to maintain 2 messengers.
  - zaik 4y ago
    It helped a lot that I refuse to be reachable on messengers that are not XMPP compatible. Most of the people I care about actually have reachable chat addresses now. For the rest I fallback to SMS and Email.
  - kiawe_fire 4y ago
    > network effect is a thing Sure is. So is getting anyone to do more than the default. I have an extended family SMS group, an "after hours" work SMS group, and an SMS group of some people I play online computer games with. Nobody across any of these groups is happy with the down-sampled videos, the inconsistent emoji reactions, and other SMS oddities. It's a constant complaint across all groups. I have suggested we switch to Telegram or Signal multiple times. Not a single person is happy with SMS. Not a single person has even bothered to install Telegram or Signal.
- tapoxi 4y ago
  I love XMPP but I onboarded 20+ extended family members just by giving them the Signal group link. I don't want to think what kind of headache introducing my 92 year old grandfather to XMPP would be.
  - MattJ100 4y ago
    Funny you should say this. It's exactly why I started the Snikket project. I already ran a family XMPP server, but it was nowhere near user-friendly enough, and I was tired of provisioning accounts manually and explaining what an XMPP client was every time someone got a new phone. I started the project early 2020, obviously with no knowledge of what was around the corner. Then during lockdown managed to onboard ~11 family members entirely remote by sending them a simple invitation link (some via SMS, some via email). The best part of the whole thing was how it enabled my (then) 4 year-old to independently video call 80 year-old grandparents (using an old Android tablet). Happy to report that a couple of years later it's still the primary method of communication between family members. Obviously it hasn't fully replaced WhatsApp/etc. which they still use for most of their contacts. But still, gotta start somewhere!
    - tapoxi 4y ago
      Checked out your website, this is an excellent idea and a great approach to fixing XMPP UX issues. Best of luck with your project!
aleksandrm 4y ago
Signal is dropping SMS support soon. It was one of the main features that I was able to convince my friends and family to use this app, a convenient all-in-one messaging app. Without it I'm not sure anymore, quite a baffling decision on their part.
- radlad 4y ago
  Many years ago when Signal was quite new I thought that they should implement SMS mirroring, similar to how you can access iMessage on your phone/laptop, and how services like Pushbullet and Project Fi offered SMS mirroring. It'd be a great "carrot" to get people using Signal and the more that did, the less would actually be using SMS! I submitted a feature request and it was promptly denied. I got the impression they never really wanted to support SMS from the beginning. It was just a carrot even then, and they weren't going to focus any more effort on it.
- tapoxi 4y ago
  I am disappointed by this but my family is 50/50 iPhone and Android. I'm not sure anyone knew of the SMS integration.
  - godelski 4y ago
    Seems to be the same with my crowd. The only people who messages me over text is my dad and distant relatives. But I haven't tried to push Signal on them. While I do understand the "need" here, I do think it is easier to push on Gen Xers and younger as they are far more comfortable with multiple messaging apps (and I don't know of one that doesn't have multiple. Minimum SMS + WA, but usually includes GroupMe, Telegram, and Facebook Messenger). I know this is an issue people are pretty vocal about but I'm having a hard time believing it just isn't a sampling bias.
godelski 4y ago
And to onboard iPhone users you just need to get them frustrated with not being able to send photos and videos to Android users. Thanks Apple. Apple users get tired of sending videos to Android users and them responding "email it to me" or "let's use Signal."

by tapoxi 4y ago

This is why I recommend friends & family use Signal, and they've actually adopted it due to the really easy on-boarding. It's probably the best iMessage alternative out there.

zaik 4y ago

That's why I run an XMPP server for family and friends. It's the IETF standard, no vendor lock-in and has Signal-style encryption nowadays.

ticviking 4y ago
How hard was it to onboard less tech savy friends and family?
- gchamonlive 4y ago
  I am not sure op actually runs that server or was just being sarcastic
- zaik 4y ago
  Not that hard. Everyone already knows how email works: you have to get an address first, download a client and login. I then showed them where to register (https://providers.xmpp.net https://providers.xmpp.net) and how to download Conversations. It got easier once a good chunk of my friend group was already available there.
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earth2mars 4y ago
I tried this. and it didn't work! network effect is a thing and its hard to move away as people have to maintain 2 messengers.
- zaik 4y ago
  It helped a lot that I refuse to be reachable on messengers that are not XMPP compatible. Most of the people I care about actually have reachable chat addresses now. For the rest I fallback to SMS and Email.
- kiawe_fire 4y ago
  > network effect is a thing Sure is. So is getting anyone to do more than the default. I have an extended family SMS group, an "after hours" work SMS group, and an SMS group of some people I play online computer games with. Nobody across any of these groups is happy with the down-sampled videos, the inconsistent emoji reactions, and other SMS oddities. It's a constant complaint across all groups. I have suggested we switch to Telegram or Signal multiple times. Not a single person is happy with SMS. Not a single person has even bothered to install Telegram or Signal.
tapoxi 4y ago
I love XMPP but I onboarded 20+ extended family members just by giving them the Signal group link. I don't want to think what kind of headache introducing my 92 year old grandfather to XMPP would be.
- MattJ100 4y ago
  Funny you should say this. It's exactly why I started the Snikket project. I already ran a family XMPP server, but it was nowhere near user-friendly enough, and I was tired of provisioning accounts manually and explaining what an XMPP client was every time someone got a new phone. I started the project early 2020, obviously with no knowledge of what was around the corner. Then during lockdown managed to onboard ~11 family members entirely remote by sending them a simple invitation link (some via SMS, some via email). The best part of the whole thing was how it enabled my (then) 4 year-old to independently video call 80 year-old grandparents (using an old Android tablet). Happy to report that a couple of years later it's still the primary method of communication between family members. Obviously it hasn't fully replaced WhatsApp/etc. which they still use for most of their contacts. But still, gotta start somewhere!
  - tapoxi 4y ago
    Checked out your website, this is an excellent idea and a great approach to fixing XMPP UX issues. Best of luck with your project!

aleksandrm 4y ago

Signal is dropping SMS support soon. It was one of the main features that I was able to convince my friends and family to use this app, a convenient all-in-one messaging app. Without it I'm not sure anymore, quite a baffling decision on their part.

radlad 4y ago
Many years ago when Signal was quite new I thought that they should implement SMS mirroring, similar to how you can access iMessage on your phone/laptop, and how services like Pushbullet and Project Fi offered SMS mirroring. It'd be a great "carrot" to get people using Signal and the more that did, the less would actually be using SMS! I submitted a feature request and it was promptly denied. I got the impression they never really wanted to support SMS from the beginning. It was just a carrot even then, and they weren't going to focus any more effort on it.
tapoxi 4y ago
I am disappointed by this but my family is 50/50 iPhone and Android. I'm not sure anyone knew of the SMS integration.
- godelski 4y ago
  Seems to be the same with my crowd. The only people who messages me over text is my dad and distant relatives. But I haven't tried to push Signal on them. While I do understand the "need" here, I do think it is easier to push on Gen Xers and younger as they are far more comfortable with multiple messaging apps (and I don't know of one that doesn't have multiple. Minimum SMS + WA, but usually includes GroupMe, Telegram, and Facebook Messenger). I know this is an issue people are pretty vocal about but I'm having a hard time believing it just isn't a sampling bias.

godelski 4y ago

And to onboard iPhone users you just need to get them frustrated with not being able to send photos and videos to Android users. Thanks Apple. Apple users get tired of sending videos to Android users and them responding "email it to me" or "let's use Signal."