The issue is they take over and then they hurt the very people trying to be helped. When I was young, hearing that someone was raped immediately brought to min

The issue is they take over and then they hurt the very people trying to be helped. When I was young, hearing that someone was raped immediately brought to mind an understanding of the heinousness of the crime. Today I assume it's not true and start asking questions. Do I like having that mindset? No, I obviously don't want anyone to be raped, men and women included. But at some point I have to protect _MYSELF_ from manipulation, and these people manipulate entirely too often. And the people who are truly hurt by this are the ones who truly need help. I mean hell, when I see a statistic about rape my first question is to see the questions asked in the poll. Because it turns out, many of the respondents THEMSELVES wouldn't consider their response to imply rape, but it gets labelled as such for the statistics.