There is another complication here though. I remember from my years as a political activist in college, those years can be quite angry, about everything. It's v

There is another complication here though. I remember from my years as a political activist in college, those years can be quite angry, about everything. It's very easy to fall into the outrage trap, and there's also peer pressure to do so if your other friends are involved. It's something that _most_ people grow out of and mature and realize that not every slight is intentional and demands wrath and justice. To be clear, I'm not saying they don't have a point, but that sometimes their messaging is very, very aggressive. My rule of thumb follows yours, but I also make allowances for young people striving to make their mark in ways their peers tell them they should.