The two are indeed very similar but I don't agree with the idea that there should be no "finger pointing". Of course there should be finger pointing and problem

The two are indeed very similar but I don't agree with the idea that there should be no "finger pointing". Of course there should be finger pointing and problems should be identified, no issue is solved without being diagnosed first. Otherwise, avoiding to name and appropriately describe is very usually a way to sweep it under the carpet.