In my experience the people who need the most help are those that don't ask for it but are still looking around helpless or grumble. It's a nice social cue to p

In my experience the people who need the most help are those that don't ask for it but are still looking around helpless or grumble. It's a nice social cue to pick up on and feels great to help people like this. Grumbling is a nice signal of: If you can spare a hand, I will be happy.