This is a general life rule. The amount of hobbies I have started at and not enjoyed the first few sessions, then blamed not keeping going on my own persistenc

This is a general life rule. The amount of hobbies I have started at and not enjoyed the first few sessions, then blamed not keeping going on my own persistence rather than admitting either A: it's too hard, or B: I don't actually enjoy it as much as I thought I would (Both of which tie in somewhat, people generally excel at what they enjoy). The amount of times I used to blame any failed conversation on myself until a friend simply said (something along the lines of) "It takes two to chat". Also applies more generally to relationships, both of which can be hard to manage. I'm sure there are many more examples, knowing your limits is key to being happy with your achievements.