Ah hello, author here! I wrote this up last week and posted it to Reddit (didn’t expect to find it on HN!) and I should probably say the same thing I did over t

Ah hello, author here! I wrote this up last week and posted it to Reddit (didn’t expect to find it on HN!) and I should probably say the same thing I did over there — this is a list of things I have learned are important, based on my own experiences. I’m sure others have had different experiences leading them to different opinions (sometimes even opposite to mine!), which is good, and I’m enjoying reading all the viewpoints here :)