influence is not control. This is a typical problem with technical people, where they're used to perfect authoritarian control. Some children are going to see

influence is not control. This is a typical problem with technical people, where they're used to perfect authoritarian control. Some children are going to see a puppy get run over and at a very young age and it's going to affect them in ways we can't even fully understand. One child may grow up just fine, the other may find themselves doing bad things 10 years down the road because it started them on a path due to whatever lesson they learned from it. The fact that paedophiles exist is the glaring counter-example. There is no culture on this earth that finds it ok to have sex with a 5 year old, yet these people exist DESPITE that.