I notice a lot of detracting responses here, but most aren't saying, "You're wrong." They're saying, "It's wrong of you to express these things unambiguously."

I notice a lot of detracting responses here, but most aren't saying, "You're wrong." They're saying, "It's wrong of you to express these things unambiguously." Why is it that we let the urge to pretend gender and sexuality aren't real prevent us from addressing the problems we have with those matters? It's not an adult way to act.