I feel like you're asking an XY-problem [0]. You want to have better information answering your problems (for free) and they criticise the question you asked.

I feel like you're asking an XY-problem [0]. You want to have better information answering your problems (for free) and they criticise the question you asked. Pay them to be nice. This will also give value to their answers, since clearly an expert advice you paid for is more worth than free advice. The next best thing to paying people is to actually thank them for their time and answers. [0]: https://xyproblem.info/ https://xyproblem.info/