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I've always been interested in this, but could never dedicate the time and energy to it. Every time I've tried to, people would think it's either a solved probl
by muzani 4y ago
I've always been interested in this, but could never dedicate the time and energy to it. Every time I've tried to, people would think it's either a solved problem or that a new app would fix it.
I think there's a bad product fit. People who really need a dating site aren't good at dating. People who are really good at dating don't need a dating site. Monetization is terrible too - most of these make money the more they date, but a perfect dating site should only be used once. So there's a lot of serial daters. There's weird stuff you see going on in r/tinder, where both men and women are great at pickup lines, but somehow can't hold a relationship.
I think what's missing is somewhat improving dating skills. Less focus on icebreaking, more on cutting deeper and finding couples that can live together forever. What are your values, life goals. Like a scammer once said, if you want to build trust, you agree with their religious beliefs, then agree with their political beliefs. If you can find people with matching values, they'd be likely to stick through things. Of course, you can't always ask that up front, you have to somehow work it into the tempo of the conversation.