This is beautifully rational advice. But that makes it only half-complete as a guide for people going through these events. There also needs to be advice on how

This is beautifully rational advice. But that makes it only half-complete as a guide for people going through these events. There also needs to be advice on how to handle the emotional and irrational side of being a person. I don't have the full set of advice to help, but I would say this is a good first step: "Be kind to yourself." Nobody can hurt you more than you can. Especially when other folks try and push their faults off on you.