You are misinterpreting the expression. It's about disambiguation in the source of the sexism, not the outcome. The whole point is that the outcome is not bene

You are misinterpreting the expression. It's about disambiguation in the source of the sexism, not the outcome. The whole point is that the outcome is not benevolent. But it's useful to have a nominative difference between sexism that has roots in hate ("women are hysterical") and sexism that has roots in a "positive" stereotype ("women are nurturing"). Those are two different types of sexism with two different root causes and need to different solutions.