Sounds like you want someone to handpick exactly what you want, there is no internet forum in existence like that where you will have a safe space from pedants

Sounds like you want someone to handpick exactly what you want, there is no internet forum in existence like that where you will have a safe space from pedants and what I call "akchually trolls". You just have to live with it because everyone one has a different definition of what "akchually is". Hackernews has been one of the best I've found. Reddit is a useful dumpster fire where you can pluck out a kernel every now and then. Stackoverflow left a bad taste in my mouth a long time ago. Sometimes discord groups are a good place to go. I find the rust ones really good.