To add my own personal experience (and to echo the headline), I met my wife while using PlentyOfFish. We have been married for 12+ years. I would never pay fo

To add my own personal experience (and to echo the headline), I met my wife while using PlentyOfFish. We have been married for 12+ years. I would never pay for a dating app/site. If you can't find somebody on the free sites, join a forum where you might find somebody with similar interests/hobbies/skills. Be a kind, polite person and once you have developed a friendship, then see if it can expand into more. Most of these other apps are more geared to hook-ups, (hump-and-dump); and not towards long-term relationships anyway.