Thank you for this well put reply. I think I need to add that I don't mean to judge for this. I've been in similar places too. It can be a fine line with man

Thank you for this well put reply. I think I need to add that I don't mean to judge for this. I've been in similar places too. It can be a fine line with many shades of gray between "dissocation" and "coping". Some of it may be useful to somebody. Falling into it as a trap is very human.