You need to be comfortable with yourself, in your skin, firstly. You won't be happy until you are. If this is about attracting women, they do like confidence.

You need to be comfortable with yourself, in your skin, firstly. You won't be happy until you are. If this is about attracting women, they do like confidence. Secondly, and it may be impossible to do, you need to consider whether what you are changing is really worth it. Compare fixing or removing some deformity or growth to a minor change to geometry. There is definitely a difference in motivation in either case, and thus a difference in mental outcome. Looking to other cosmetic surgeries, we see that there is a percentage of people who are unhappy inside and become addicted to surgery, chasing some ideal. We also see suicides in some transgender people who opt for surgery as it doesn't fix how they feel inside. You need to meditate on this and ask yourself, very deeply and seriously, whether achieving what you want will leave you satisfied? You also need to consider outcomes with less than total success. This isn't Photoshop after all. Reflect on how you may feel about it in 10 years, 20 years, etc.