There is no solution. How do I break up with someone because I'm unhappy without harming them? I can't. It just is. Some things just are. The parents would

There is no solution. How do I break up with someone because I'm unhappy without harming them? I can't. It just is. Some things just are. The parents would never have suffered that particular harm if they were disallowed from having children. Is that a solution? It seems a rather effective solution to this particular problem. Or maybe we can agree that things such as freedom has inherent risks involved and we should seek to mitigate where practical rather than solving it. --- I mean, I could go on. boys going through puberty can sometimes be embarrassed by unplanned erections in school. Removing them from school would solve the problem, should we do it?