"My server, my rules" really is very easy. A lot often is just a simple matter of "if I don't like you, I won't give you access, or retrospectively kick you of

"My server, my rules" really is very easy. A lot often is just a simple matter of "if I don't like you, I won't give you access, or retrospectively kick you off". And the other side is that if you, as user don't like that, there are thousands of other instances to choose from. And if none are good enough for you, you can run your own.