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My mother was an irrational unreasonable prying crazy nightmare who was incredibly negative and hated anyone disagreeing with her about any trivial thing. My b
by controversial97 4y ago
My mother was an irrational unreasonable prying crazy nightmare who was incredibly negative and hated anyone disagreeing with her about any trivial thing.
My biggest regret is that I allowed her to order me to go to the nearest university and continue to live with her. She had drained me of all confidence and was hostile to signs of me being an independent adult.
Getting away from her years earlier would have been much better for me.
- sph 4y agoI hope you've sought some professional help and are doing better. It is incredible how damaging bad parents can be. Being the brain so malleable, you'd grow your entire persona and life—your entire self—around a messed up childhood and then slowly solidify into position as you age. Many of your thought patterns are tainted, and healing is a very long and painful process. But being (made) aware of the extent of the damage is the first and necessary step to a healthier self.
- olivierestsage 4y agoI lived through the same experience. If you ever figure out this problem (which you clearly have), you have nothing to regret. Not everyone does.
- hestefisk 4y agoWas the diagnosed with borderline personality disorder? Surely sounds like it.