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Regretting is not just an isolated mental state. It's rather a mindset. If you are somebody who can't let the past be past but has to drag it into the present t
by 2-718-281-828 4y ago
Regretting is not just an isolated mental state. It's rather a mindset. If you are somebody who can't let the past be past but has to drag it into the present to continue the suffering tainting the future then you will always regret. Doesn't really matter what you do. There's always something to regret. But if you learn to let go of the past you'll feel free and live happy until the day you die.
- coyotespike 4y agoThis! Many of my old "worst regrets", which bugged me for years, no longer bother me. If I revisit the regrets that don't bother me - well, probably they could start bothering me again! I still have regrets that haunt me daily. I'm learning to live with those too. A life well lived has a lot of griefs in it, but stewing in them isn't an awesome way to handle them.