I can’t promise any specific advice, but as someone who runs a number of self-hosted services for mostly ideological purposes (see https://compose.seedno.de/ ht

I can’t promise any specific advice, but as someone who runs a number of self-hosted services for mostly ideological purposes (see https://compose.seedno.de/ https://compose.seedno.de/ for a subset) and works professionally in networking, I’m always happy to chat about my own experiences and suggestions! Feel free to email me at lab (at) seedno.de to chat!