> convey what I want to say comes with practice > so that I don't say anything that sounds demeaning or hurtful to the listener. Learn to put yourself in th

> convey what I want to say comes with practice > so that I don't say anything that sounds demeaning or hurtful to the listener. Learn to put yourself in their position. Imagine someone's saying it to you, how would you feel hearing it? Takes practice. I still have to do it. > It also includes listening attentively to what the other person is saying. Practice, and believing they have something valuable to say. If you really can't concentrate, that may be a medical thing. Good luck!