>I have been humiliated many times in my life, some times in life changing ways, and I'd still take it over real violence. I would too, in most cases; that sai

>I have been humiliated many times in my life, some times in life changing ways, and I'd still take it over real violence. I would too, in most cases; that said, I'd rather get a literal slap on the wrist or even the face than be humiliated in an online sphere, especially as related to my real identity. It's not the case that shame and humiliation always trumps physical violence in my order of preferences, and I'd be surprised if it's not the same for you too. "Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" is a cute rhyme, but utterly disintegrates when one starts to consider degree and the importance of social standing in public daily life (from getting a job to the looks you get at Walmart).