> I don't think who we end up with is some 1 in a million cosmic star aligning moment, it's probably more like 1 in 100 I suspect that you're right for most pe

> I don't think who we end up with is some 1 in a million cosmic star aligning moment, it's probably more like 1 in 100 I suspect that you're right for most people, but those odds will be better or worse depending on the person and their circumstance. For some people, it probably is closer to 1 in a million, or could even be worse. Some go their entire lives meeting people and never finding one. There's probably not much harm in feeling a bit lucky to have found your person, especially if you suspect at least one of your odds were worse than most.