The feeling should be that they deserve more, not that you deserve less. It's not that you're an imposter, it's that they need to be "discovered" and given more

The feeling should be that they deserve more, not that you deserve less. It's not that you're an imposter, it's that they need to be "discovered" and given more. Or they should go make different choices if they want. Nonetheless, while they "give up" some things, they gain other things with their choices, which you don't have. For example, they might have clear work hours, they might not take work home mentally, they might have more time with the family, etc.