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Having kids has created a very specific structure.
by danbrooks 4y ago
Having kids has created a very specific structure.
- Tade0 4y agoYes. Also forces one to prioritize because both time and energy are precious resources.
- euroderf 4y agoYes. You will find a lot of half-hearted "interests" melting away.
- oldsklgdfth 4y agoNot having kids, I feel like a family clears up the optimization problem of: * what should I be doing with my time? * what is important to think about? As a software dev with a flexible schedule, my life feels arbitrary. I pick up hobbies because I need stuff to do, I try to eat better to take care of myself, I save money and live frugally for a rainy day. But there's no common thread to all these. It's just stuff I picked.