This is in same category as How many weekends/sunrise/sunsets/friend visits/famous place/restaurant and so on one can have before they themselves or other party

This is in same category as How many weekends/sunrise/sunsets/friend visits/famous place/restaurant and so on one can have before they themselves or other party die? To me all these numbers sound reasonable. Either I took conscious decisions to reach this situation, in that case there is nothing to be surprised about. Or maybe things just happened one after other, then how can I suddenly change and take control of things and do it differently.