Thanks for that. I look at the situation from a different angle - having a young son I put so much daily effort for him to end up in a life that he's happy with

Thanks for that. I look at the situation from a different angle - having a young son I put so much daily effort for him to end up in a life that he's happy with, whatever that may turn out to be. I'd hate for him to be ever held back his parents. Im not saying that this move was not the right choice for him, but it's definitely not a general advice.