How in the world is giving money back a bad look. I swear some of the people here are working backwards from their already concluded “she’s a cheater” and twist

How in the world is giving money back a bad look. I swear some of the people here are working backwards from their already concluded “she’s a cheater” and twisting anything they can to fit it. It’s wild to see, as someone with zero stake in it either way, but a cheater would not give the money back when asked.