> low self esteem / insecurity is often the root cause of negative and harmful behaviors. Low self esteem and insecurity aren't the problem. Lots of people suf

> low self esteem / insecurity is often the root cause of negative and harmful behaviors. Low self esteem and insecurity aren't the problem. Lots of people suffer from it through little fault of their own and, frankly, people who think they're always right and never question themselves can be just as toxic. The problem is people repressing their insecurities, acting out and making other people responsible for their pain, instead of facing their insecurities head on e.g. through therapy.