Oof. I can’t imagine a 50/50 relationship. My marriage isn’t even 50/50, unless we are getting a divorce. In my marriage we each have “domains” that we are gods

Oof. I can’t imagine a 50/50 relationship. My marriage isn’t even 50/50, unless we are getting a divorce. In my marriage we each have “domains” that we are gods of. When it comes to money, she has domain over day-to-day expenses and I have control over making sure bills are paid and taxes are accounted for and we reconcile this fairly regularly. My point is, there has to be some kind of “tie-breaker” that isn’t biased/random. Whether that is a “fact” that something falls into someone’s “domain” or whether it’s a person. 50/50 just doesn’t seem realistic or a recipe for stress.