> this is par for the course for nearly every married man in the West Good grief, I hope not. My wife is nothing like that. At all. And very few of my frien

> this is par for the course for nearly every married man in the West Good grief, I hope not. My wife is nothing like that. At all. And very few of my friends and acquaintances have experienced a relationship like that. How sad to think that this is what marriage ought to be. That's horrifying. I'd be single and celibate before I'd let someone treat me that way.