This is too simplistic. Life is better when you can open up, and there are women who welcome it for real and not just with words. The hard part is that it's so

This is too simplistic. Life is better when you can open up, and there are women who welcome it for real and not just with words. The hard part is that it's something you can only really learn about your partner with certainty once it really matters. So in a way it's actually better to open up early, when the cost of being disappointed isn't too high yet.