> mattgreenrocks 17 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [–] > anything to dispel that notion makes your value plummet The disgusting thing is that if one's valu

> mattgreenrocks 17 minutes ago | parent | prev | next [–] > anything to dispel that notion makes your value plummet The disgusting thing is that if one's value does plummet, that serves as a blank check for the partner to harm the relationship as a passive-aggressive feedback mechanism to discourage subsequent behavior like it, be that withdrawal, or avoidance, or picking fights over inconsequential things the devalue phase of an unhealthy narcissistic relationship is not representative of most healthy relationships. a healthy compassion based relationship would see a value plummet met with support. I hate that I speak from experience on the matter.