Arming and training Ukraine and including them in NATO all but in name is being a doormat? What about santioning Europe for its own protection to deter NordStr

Arming and training Ukraine and including them in NATO all but in name is being a doormat? What about santioning Europe for its own protection to deter NordStream 2? And what about the sanctions against Russia? This appeasement meme is tiresome. One forced a country to give up territory, the others did everything except open warfare all in the name of a country which is neither in the EU nor NATO.