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IMO compassion is too weak and diffuse to be a replacement for duty and shame. I feel compassion towards a lot of people, e.g. the people suffering from hurrica
by allturtles 4y ago
IMO compassion is too weak and diffuse to be a replacement for duty and shame. I feel compassion towards a lot of people, e.g. the people suffering from hurricane Ian, but I feel no duty to drop what I'm doing to help them, and no shame about not doing so. Whereas if a friend or family member were in dire need, I would have those feelings. This is a good thing. Society would cease to function if compassion were as strong as duty and shame, and everyone dropped everything to help anyone in need anywhere in the world.
- n4r9 4y agoCompassion doesn't have to be equal towards all people! It rarely is; it's natural to feel more compassion towards people that are emotionally closer to you. If I help a friend or family member in need, it's not because I feel some sense of duty, but because I care about them and don't want them to suffer.