As with everything else, try to reach eudemonia. Taking yourself too seriously is a personal failing, but having zero responsibility is equally incorrect. Findi

As with everything else, try to reach eudemonia. Taking yourself too seriously is a personal failing, but having zero responsibility is equally incorrect. Finding a good balance between being an adult and staying in touch with your childhood is essential. I know a few "NEETs" in my life that are "manchildren" and few of them are happy, and I know a few workaholics that also feel miserable. The thing is, success does indeed make people happy, and so does free time. To feel satisfied one must find work that feels somewhat meaningful, or at least shows some kind of success, and have enough time to enjoy life itself. TL;DR: too much of anything is a bad thing. Being a manchild or a workaholic is equally bad. Find a balance between fun and work.