> I don’t see (many) “successful” or “leader” type people publicly engaging in so called “adult behaviours” This depends on the public pressure to do so I bel

> I don’t see (many) “successful” or “leader” type people publicly engaging in so called “adult behaviours” This depends on the public pressure to do so I believe. As a counterexample one could name German ex-chancellor Angela Merkel. You can hardly name any decisions she carries full responsibility for, her role was mostly to mediate finding a compromise between interests of different parties.