I took a break for about 2 years spanning the time leading up to and right after my second son was born. It happened somewhat naturally, because I exited a star

I took a break for about 2 years spanning the time leading up to and right after my second son was born. It happened somewhat naturally, because I exited a startup and needed to move geographically for family reasons. I did some consulting and still owned 2 businesses during that time, but it all added up to far less than full time. That time ended up being great for figuring out what I really wanted to do later when I had more time and mental energy to focus. It also was great for my relationships with my family, especially my sons. I think it’s somewhat socially acceptable for women to do this. I wish it were seen as more acceptable, and also as a viable option for men. I see a lot of new dads struggling. The options seem to be either semi check out of family life or semi check out of work while they struggle through at low capacity. Taking a break can be a nicer option if your career gives you a good natural break point.