Same here, I'm aligned with what you describe. There are some exceptions, though (tabs are evil, etc…) where I have a strong opinion, and sometimes I fantasize

Same here, I'm aligned with what you describe. There are some exceptions, though (tabs are evil, etc…) where I have a strong opinion, and sometimes I fantasize about strongly holding it. I am conscious about letting any of those pet peeves become anything bigger. As of late, I make an effort to evaluate the person in front of me and decide, case by case, if they have enough self-doubt about themselves. Many times it reflects back on my own self-doubt and helps me gauge it.