1) Truly listen to understand… not to respond. 2) Try not to win through debates (high school debate mentality) but through your actions - how you express your

1) Truly listen to understand… not to respond. 2) Try not to win through debates (high school debate mentality) but through your actions - how you express your opinions matter 3) Understand that truths are not necessary facts (be willing to change your mind) 4) Your strong opinion about something might be useful delusion to someone else (e.g religion) 5) Strong opinions often come from privilege (knowledge, money …etc) - so check your ego and attachments 6) Try to be a teacher