And as a child of abuse myself, I hate these attitudes. The deed is done. You can't un-pregnant that woman, nor can you un-abuse that child. Declaring that t

And as a child of abuse myself, I hate these attitudes. The deed is done. You can't un-pregnant that woman, nor can you un-abuse that child. Declaring that the abuse shouldn't have happened in the first place does fuck-all for the child who has been abused.